Posts Tagged ‘Anger’


By Stella Vegas On April 10, 2015 No Comments

Today transiting Sun(awarenesses) in Aries is in my 7th house of relating and opposing my Pluto(power) and I had peculiar dream about getting into an argument with my partner and then hitting him and apologising so many times afterwards. While this is something which has happened only ever in my dream, our dreams are great window to our unconscious and this resonates a lot with my childhood where I grew up in the family where my father was regularly hitting my mother, even while she was pregnant, whenever he would get overly angry and jealous. Needless to say I despised and hated every bone in his body. Our dreams are great window into our unconscious and recently other minor but significant events have piled up too which powerfully highlight these themes.I grew up terrified of others people anger and I was thought that my own rage which I felt as young child was bad and nobody will love me and through my parents relationship I learned wrongly that love equals pain.

HEALING AND SELF ACCEPTANCE In my dream roles where reversed from how it was in my childhood and it was so with the good reason, for very often the part of personality which we found hard to accept in our parent or any other important person in our life, perhaps because they where not managing this part of them in a balanced way, on a deeper level it is also a vital part which exists in our own being and which we have forgotten about and abandoned thorough the course of living. By becoming aware of this part in ourselves we have opportunity to bring our wounded feelings in connection with this part to light and by accepting and loving ourselves unconditional new powerful empowerment and balanced expression of our personality springs forward. In the process of healing, forgiveness and reclaiming our own light, it is important to understand that while on the surface of life situations and experiences it seems that major conflict is going on between ourselves and “other person”, the real conflict is actually happening in the depths of our own being between our parts which we have disowned and abandoned.

It is not a matter of forgiveness. If the other person has treated you badly, then it is important to leave the responsibility for that with them, and let them take the consequences. This process is something just for you – to allow you to let go of this situation that has been hanging over you, and get on with your life feeling lighter and unburdened.The process is for anyone you are holding grudges against, or judgements about. It may be someone alive or dead, someone present in your life or from the past, someone in your family or someone from your work. It doesn’t matter – as long as we carry grudge against someone, that person goes on haunting us in a way – we give them power over us. We are not free. This process is about cleaning up our lives and becoming free of these burdens. >>You can read full article on this by following this link http://www.lifetrainings.com/Healing-the-Heart.html

There are several ways to do this vital process, it can be done in a simple way by yourself by writing a letter to a person or it is possible to find a therapist who understands and knows how to do this process together with you. Recently I found excellent you tube link for hypnotic process for Releasing Anger and Resentment with Guided Forgivenesshttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qj4KiLN3H Also my friend has recently pointed out to very good traditional Hawaiian prayer which helps to clear negative memories. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ybtW2VrmwJs

TRANSITING SUN – The journey of transiting Sun around the birth chart is always revealing, transits last for only for a day but if you pay attention to experiences on the day when transiting Sun conjuncts or opposes your natal planets you can get prime insights about what needs your attention in connection with the planet which transiting Sun is illuminating.
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“No blame, no reasoning, no argument, just understanding. If you understand, and you show that you understand, you can love, and the situation will change.” ~ Thích Nhất Hạnh

RAINBOW OBSIDIAN CRYSTAL: Is black Obsidan that, when polished and exposed to a strong light source, reveals bands of red, blue, gold or green shades which seem to correspond to layers of molten lava that cooled at different rates or times. Rainbow Obsidain helps one take the down-ward journey to unexpected light and assists in recovery from emotional wounds.

Rainbow Obsidian